Before your child’s appointment, think about the questions you want your child’s primary care provider (PCP) to answer. Writing down your questions ahead of time can help you stay focused so you don’t forget anything important.
Here are some questions to think about asking your PCP. This list is meant to be a guide, only. You may need to ask your PCP other questions that are right for you.
Questions to ask your child’s primary care provider (PCP)
- Is my child’s growth and development on track for their age?
- Birth to 13
- What can you tell me about my child’s developmental milestones?
- Are my child’s behaviors right for their age?
- 13 and older
- Are my teen’s behavior right for their age?
- What does my teen need to know about Sexually Transmitted Infections?
- Is my teen’s weight right for their age?
- Birth to 13
- Are there any concerns with my child’s height, weight, or Body Mass Index (BMI)?
- Is my child growing and developing like they should for their age?
- What vaccines does my child need?
- Is it safe to get my child vaccinated?
- What is the risk of not getting my child vaccinated?
- Is my child’s diet appropriate for their age and activity level?
- Are there any vitamins or supplements they should be taking?
- How much physical activity should they get every day?
- Are my child’s behaviors and emotions typical for their age?
- Should I be concerned about their mental health like anxiety or depression, mood swings, or attention issues?
- How can I support their mental and emotional well-being?
- Does my child have signs of anxiety, ADHD, or other chronic conditions?
- Is my child getting enough sleep for their age?
- The total amount of sleep a child needs depends on their age. Refer to the chart below to see what the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends.
Source: American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP)Age
Recommended hours of sleep per day
Birth – 3 months
16 – 17 hours
4 – 12 months
12 – 16 hours (often sleeps through the night)
1 – 2 years
11 – 14 hours
3 – 5 years
10 – 13 hours
6 – 12 years
9 – 12 hours
13 – 18 years
8 – 10 hours
- Where can I learn more about kids’ healthy sleeping?
- The total amount of sleep a child needs depends on their age. Refer to the chart below to see what the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends.
- When is it time to switch from a car seat to a booster seat (or to a regular seat)?
- What can I do at home to help keep my child safe while playing or doing sports?
- What infectious diseases are currently spreading, and how can I protect my child?
- Is my child showing signs of early or delayed puberty?
- What should I expect in the coming years?
- When/how should I discuss safe sex with my child?
- How do I know if my child has autism?
- Should I be concerned about screen time?
- Electronics are part of our daily lives. There are good reasons for using them (schoolwork, reading, and playing games). But there are health benefits to limiting screen time (decreased obesity, better sleep, less anxiety). The Academy of Pediatrics recommends the following screen time limits:
Source: American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP)Age
Recommended screen time
18 – 24 months
Very limited and only when an adult is near
2 – 5 years
No more than 1 hour per day
5 years +
Screen time should not replace activities, sleep, or family time
12 – 18 years
Some independence with parent supervision
- Where can I learn more about kids’ healthy sleeping?
- Electronics are part of our daily lives. There are good reasons for using them (schoolwork, reading, and playing games). But there are health benefits to limiting screen time (decreased obesity, better sleep, less anxiety). The Academy of Pediatrics recommends the following screen time limits:
- Bring up other specific concerns like you've noticed—like frequent fatigue, allergies, unusual (picky) eating, or other concerns.
- Does my child need a physical and vaccines before going back to school in the fall?
- When should I schedule my child’s next visit?
- How will I know when to call you or get care?
- How can I contact you if I have questions after this visit?
- Are there additional resources to help with the delivery of my baby and after I have my baby?